Working Together: Engaging Men to End Violence against Women

Today is International Women’s Day, and this year Canada’s theme coincides perfectly with what we have been focusing on in The Cridge Women’s and Family Services for the past year, namely:


“Working Together: Engaging Men to End Violence against Women”

In that context, we share with you the two following pieces. First, our gratitude and appreciation for the men of the First Church of the Nazarene, Victoria, for their engaged commitment to the White Ribbon Campaign. Second, an invaluable, insightful, though-provoking video by male-ally and gender activist Jackson Katz, who breaks down how we have linguistically made violence against women a ‘women’s issue’ and how to change that focus so that our conversation for solutions and change includes everyone.

Happy Women’s Day. And thank you to everyone who stands with us in saying until the world is safe from violence for all, we will not rest.

The White Ribbon Campaign is a non-profit organization that aims to equip men to voice their opposition to violence against women and girls. Each year, the White Ribbon Campaign invites men around the world to wear white ribbons as a symbol of their commitment to put a stop to domestic violence.

In November Candace Stretch asked the men’s bible study in her faith community, The First Church of the Nazarene, to take part in the White Ribbon Campaign. I was invited by the group to lead a discussion about how men can get involved in this issue. I was inspired to see how engaged the group was with the topic. At the end of our time together, each of the men in the group took a white ribbon and signed a pledge to do his part to end violence against women.

The following Sunday, led by Pastor Gary Bennett, these men wore their white ribbons to the service and invited others in the church to join them. By the end of the morning, dozens of men were walking out the church doors adorned with white ribbons. It was a true testament to the commitment shared by many men in our community who have chosen to stand up to violence against women and girls.

Thank you to the men of the First Church of the Nazarene!

Violence & Silence: Jackson Katz, Ph.D at TEDxFiDiWomen

Leadership Legacy

At the invitation of Leading Influence Ministries, our CEO Shelley Morris delivered the keynote address at the 2013 MLA Prayer Breakfast. We share it here with the hope that you will be as blessed and inspired in its reading as were the people in the room:

When you stand up to speak in front of a large group of people, you want to say something brilliant or amusing, where the crowd settles in right away thinking ‘oh yeah, this is going to be good!’  Maybe you throw out a pithy witticism or a profound quote.

But instead, I have dipped into the well of wisdom to draw from a modern poet.  Without wanting to embarrass our esteemed host Tim Schindel, nor reflect poorly on The Cridge Centre for the Family, or more important, have you start fleeing the room – I’m going to dare to quote from that purveyor of fine music, that master of melody, the weaver of words, the KING of elevator music – Barry Manilow.

Even across the room I’m pretty sure I just saw some of my board and staff members roll their eyes and wince, but stick with me and listen to these words:

Just one voice
Singing in the darkness
All it takes is one voice
Singing so they hear what’s on your mind
and when you look around you’ll find
there’s more than One voice
Singing in the darkness
joining with YOUR one voice
each and every note another octave
Hands are joined and fears unlocked
if only one voice would start on its own
We need just one voice facing the unknown
and that one voice would never be alone
it takes that one voice, just one voice.

(N. B: you may enjoy this version of One Voice by Straight No Chaser, featuring Barry Manilow)

It doesn’t look as though I chased too many people from the room so let me try to shed some light on why I shared that with you. I want to talk to you today about legacy.  Not just leaving a legacy, but LIVING a leadership legacy each and every day.

Take a little mental trip with me and imagine that it is the early 1850’s.  A young man and his new bride leave the bucolic life of a country Vicar in England and boards a sailing ship, chartered by the Hudsons Bay Company.

For six long months he and his fellow passengers suffer the lack of fresh fruit and vegetables, and at times even fresh water.  They battle heavy seas and pelting rains.  They round the ship-killer called Cape Horn enduring freezing cold and then unrelenting heat.  Imagine every passenger suffering some type of sickness on the journey.  It’s a true story and it was a  journey of hardship and deprivation that was undertaken by Bishop Edward Cridge and his bride Mary before they finally arrived at their new home, a stockade, mud a foot deep in the street, a few scattered buildings … home… Fort Victoria.

Here was a couple who made a choice to put service to others above comfort of self.  Here was a couple who, with no thought of how they would be remembered, created legacy, lived legacy and left a legacy.  They started the BC Protestant Orphans’ Home which of course today is where I work and is now known as The Cridge Centre for the Family, the oldest continuously serving charitable organization in Western Canada.

Their ethic of service and ministry over the decades propelled them to leadership. They galvanized the community in developing prison reform, combating racism, improving health care, education, the rights of the poor; they were involved in politics, culture and the arts – tThe very same ongoing work that many leaders, churches, charities, businesses and people in this room continue to strive for today.

I don’t think they ever gave a moment’s thought to what their legacy would look like 140 years later, I don’t think they set out to be leaders in society – yet what leaders they were and what a legacy their lives have left.  A legacy wasn’t the goal of their lives; it was the side-effect, the by-product.

Today, because of Edward and Mary, The Cridge Centre for the Family serves seniors; children; survivors of brain injury; individuals and families in need of safe, affordable housing; families with a disabled child; young parents; new Canadians; women and children escaping domestic violence; and those in need of counsel and support. Our clients are your constituents, your parishioners, your customers, your neighbours, your family members, your friends, your community.

One man, one woman, each with one voice, living and leaving a profound leadership legacy by virtue of excellence, service, humility and dedication

At The Cridge, we are a part of Edward and Mary Cridge’s legacy, but we are also continuing to LIVE that legacy every single day in service to others.  Each staff member, board member, volunteer, one voice at a time, is adding to that chorus that Edward and Mary started.  We strive to be leaders in our community, we honour where we have come from, and we choose to lead in excellence into the future. The mission and ministry of The Cridge Centre for the Family is changing lives as much today as Edward and Mary did in their day. And just as an aside, if you aren’t familiar with the work we do, then talk to me or anyone of our board or management team members who are sitting at those tables over there (wave your hands guys) and we would love to spend some time with you and show you around and talk to you about our work, our passion and our vision.

Honoured members of the Legislature, no matter what position you do – or do not – hold in government in the months or in the years ahead, each individual one of you have already shown yourselves to be people who, like Edward and Mary Cridge, choose to sacrifice what was easy and instead push through, at times stormy waters, in order to raise YOUR one voice. I think that anyone who has ever observed Question Period in the House knows that it can be as turbulent as rounding Cape Horn at times!

You are leaders today and you will be leaders tomorrow.  Now this isn’t church, but I am here to testify that whether alone, or sometimes joined in chorus, you HAVE been living your leadership legacy and we honour you for that, and although this isn’t church, when it comes to appreciating these servants and saying thank you, can you all give me an Amen on that! (Amen!)

But I’m also going to challenge you, encourage you and celebrate you going forward to continue that legacy of leadership every day that you wake up and find yourself blessed with being vertical and with a new constellation of opportunities in front of you.

No matter what political stripe you wear, there is no doubt that every MLA in this room, and I would also say every individual in this room, is fuelled by a desire to create success, change, hope, opportunity and community.  You have taken the journey of hardship in order to make a difference and you are making a difference.

A year from now, we’ll see some of the same faces in this room, some new faces, some missing faces – such is the nature of politics and elections – but politics and elections DO NOT DEFINE your legacy, they do not define you as a leader, they do not define the range or limits of your success, and they most certainly do not define you as a person.

Legacies don’t happen overnight – they are crafted over years of hard work and dedication, over a lifetime of hard work and dedication. They are not your reputation, and  they especially are not your job title: MLA, CEO, Pastor, Businessperson, Manager, Dishwasher or Ditchdigger … the beginning or end of working under any job title is no barrier to creating your own legacy or to leading with vision.   Your job may provide a wonderful window of opportunity to contribute to your legacy, but Your legacy is created from within you; Your legacy is carried within you. And, if I may, Your legacy is gifted by God and entrusted to you.

I’m sure many of you are familiar with Mattie Stepanek, an American poet who died in 2004 at the age of 13.  His words moved the world,  impacted lives and inspired millions and it was in fact, President Jimmy Carter who, citing Mattie as his hero, gave his eulogy, saying  “we have known kings and queens, and we’ve known presidents and prime ministers, but the most extraordinary person whom I have ever known in my life is Mattie Stepanek.”

I’d like to read you two short poems that Mattie wrote in 1996, already with the heart and mind of a wise philosopher and peacemaker packed into the sick and decaying body of a six year old.

(N.B. Shelley read Mattie’s poems ‘Heartsong’ and ‘The Daily Gift’ at this point. We do not have permission to publish those poems, but encourage you to purchase Mattie’s book via the Mattie J. T. Stepanek Foundation).

When I mentioned that legacies are crafted over a lifetime, it’s clear that not one of us know the day or the hour appointed for the end of our journey. Legacy is not a matter that you can put off and ‘get to’ later.  The time is now, today is the day, and when you leave this room is the moment.

One Voice, One Heartsong … it doesn’t matter what you know, if you don’t know what really matters and you don’t live it and you don’t leave it behind. Some might have thought of Edward and Mary’s journey to the new world as a ‘life sentence’ of hardship – I believe they would have said they had a life sentence of service and reward, of opportunity and blessing.

Sometimes we see an epitaph as a reflection of someone’s life sentence,  an indicator of how they lived their lives and it doesn’t always get written the way we might like to see ourselves:

On a lawyer’s grave in England, there was a man by the name of Sir John Strange, his tombstone reads “here lies an honest lawyer, and that is Strange.” Or from the wild west in Silver City, Nevada: “Here lies a man named Zeke. Second fastest draw in Cripple Creek.”

We see humour in those, but not likely the life goal that Zeke would have chosen to be remembered for. Clare Boothe Luce challenged us to create a sentence, a statement, summarizing the goal and purpose of our lives – a life sentence if you will.

Let me pick on MLA Margaret MacDiarmid who so graciously introduced herself to me at the table this morning. I don’t think we’d ever hear Ms. MacDiarmid say, “My life goal is defined as being an MLA”,  I think we’d hear you say, “I want to use my time, talents, energy and vision to make British Columbia the best it can be, for all people, in this generation and for generations to come.”

When each of you create and own your personal life sentence, you not only begin to create your legacy, you begin to LIVE your legacy and you carry it through job titles, through work, through retirement, through play, through volunteering, through charity work, through business, government or ministry.  You carry it with you through spending your dollars, the people you choose to spend time with and through putting boots on the ground to get done what needs to be done.

When you see new challenges or renewed challenges and opportunities ahead of you, you must carry your core strengths and your life sentence with you and unleash them in whatever role you fill.

Whether you are a person of faith or not, whether you are a preacher or premier, dishwasher or ditchdigger, I believe each of you have a divine destiny and purpose and the legacy you leave is up to you to discover, embrace and fulfill – not for the purposes of power and self-agrandisement, but for the equipping and fulfilling of all that can be created for good from the Edward and Mary Cridge type of servant-leadership.

I was reading recently about how oftentimes, people who aren’t fulfilling their destiny will try to discourage you from fulfilling yours! They may not do it intentionally, but they’ll tell you what you can’t do and how things won’t work out.  They are quick to remind you of impossibilities … they may try to talk you out of your dream, out of your passion.

But I believe that God put that destiny, that passion, that living legacy, that promise, inside of you, not inside of them. You have to remember that other people do not determine your destiny or your legacy, God does. As a person of faith, I believe that He holds your destiny and my destiny in the palm of His hand, and if we are true to living, as the author said, “your best life now” then God will not only bring it to pass, but it will be beyond what we might even ask or think. Don’t let people talk you out of your passion, or your dreams, don’t let them walk all over your living legacy with the muddy boots of discouragement.

There is no question, you will leave a legacy of some sort, whether it be the kind of legacy that ends up on a tombstone telling people that you were second fastest on the draw or whether you have prime ministers extol your virtues or whether you serve humbly and quietly without fanfare and in the end fulfill every desire that God has placed in you, you will leave a legacy.    So when you leave here – today, a year from now, ten years from now – go get it done!

Lead where you stand, serve whom you meet, reach out to those in need, think, feel, give, receive, be courageous, have convictions, define your life sentence, be blessed and get up every morning and determine to live your legacy and raise your one voice and share the passions of your heart, your heartsong.

We don’t necessarily all share the same faith in this room, and we come to living our lives and legacy from different directions – and I respect that.  So let me just gently say that from my belief, I believe in each one of you, I believe that God has equipped each of you.  A devotion I read recently finished up by saying “It’s time to get in agreement with God. He says you are well able. He says you are equipped. He says you are qualified. He says you are anointed, called and appointed to fulfill every dream and desire he placed within you!”

And in that reality, your legacy will change the world.

Thank you for letting me share this time with you today.

Dance for the Royal Lepage Shelter Foundation

The Royal Lepage Shelter Foundation is a major donor each year to The Cridge Transition House for Women, with money raised locally by the Royal LePage Coast Capital team. They're hosting a new, fun fundraiser this year – an afternoon of dance lessons – on Sunday, April 28 fro 3-5 pm. 

Cost is a suggested donation of $10 or more, and to register email shayla.attfield AT royallepage DOT ca

Bringing the Victim into the Room

A Survivor’s Voice on Breaking the Cycle of Domestic Violence

The Cridge Centre for the Family is proud to present two free community training opportunities to stem the tide of domestic violence in our region. Speaker Kamal Dhillon, author of Black and Blue Sari and recipient of the 2012 Courage to Come Back Award, will share her very powerful personal story of surviving abuse, and work with attendees to ensure they have the tools and knowledge to support victims of relationship violence.

Kamal’s powerful personal style and workshop format ensure that all attendees are engaged in bringing the dark issue of domestic violence into the light.

Kamal will be presenting at two events in Victoria: the first will focus on the needs of Professionals and Policy Makers, including social service staff, social workers, counsellors, police, emergency responders and politicians. During the second event, Kamal will speak to leaders from across the faith community; victims of violence frequently speak first to their faith leaders, and this session will ensure those leaders feel equipped to respond when the need arises.

Cory Heavener, Director of the Provincial Office of Domestic Violence will open both events with brief remarks. Both events will take place at the Marriott Inner Harbour – Victoria, our generous hosts. Attendees will receive a meal, invaluable training, and community resource information packages.

For more details on Kamal Dhillon and her amazing message of empowerment, hope, and freedom through forgiveness, visit

If you would like to register for either event, select the appropriate link below.

For more information, or if you would like to be a named sponsor for this event, Shannon Whissell via email or phone (250) 995-6419.

Professionals and Policy-Makers
Wednesday, April 17, 2013
Noon – 4:30 pm
Marriott Inner Harbour – Pacific Ballroom
728 Humboldt Street, Victoria
Includes Lunch

Sold Out – Join Waitlist


Faith Leaders
Thursday, April 18, 2013
8:00 am – 12:30 pm
Marriott Inner Harbour – Pacific Ballroom
728 Humboldt Street, Victoria
Includes Breakfast

Event Sponsors: 

Giving Back in the Giving Season


In this past Season of Giving, I know we were all focused on the huge responsibility of providing for our clients: ensuring that we were making the most of Christmas fundraising opportunities so that we can run our programs effectively throughout the year, working to provide Christmas gifts and hampers to our clients in financial need, providing fun and festive entertainment to clients who need some Christmas cheer, and giving our staff the special acknowledgement that they deserve during the Christmas season.
In the midst of the busy-ness of ensuring that all of our clients and staff were well provided for during the past several weeks, I was both touched and humbled by the examples of many of our clients who acted in their own unique ways to “give back” to the programs of The Cridge Centre. Some of the things I observed included 
  • Beth, the Dovetail client, who saw Louise struggling to unload the Cobs Bread donation during the week before Christmas, when staffing was lean. Beth dropped everything that she had to do and took the time to not only help unload the many bags of bread, but also to help sort and put it on the shelves. OR,
  • Kathy, the former CTHW resident, who lovingly prepared little gifts for each of the Transition House staff that had worked with her during her time at the House and who called on Christmas Day to wish our staff a Merry Christmas. She even shared that “this had been the best Christmas she had had in 40 years.” OR,
  • Jamie & Leah, the YPOP parents, who recognized that a fellow YPOP mom had a received a Christmas hamper that did not include a gift for her child, and pooled their collective “hamper resources” and gave their friend a few gifts for Santa to give her child. OR,
  • Sue, the Respitality parent, who despite the incredible challenge of raising a child with special needs, gave of her time and energy to volunteer at the Stuff the Stocking event where she was an invaluable part of the kitchen team, ensuring that food and beverages were flowing for all who attended.
What an amazing opportunity the Christmas Season brings – an opportunity for us to show Christ’s love to our clients as we work to provide wonderful gifts 
and memories for them. But, also, an opportunity for us to see the truly remarkable ways that our clients give back to us and to each other, and what a lovely gift that is!

In silent stillness lay

Christmas is, and always has been, a magicial time at The Cridge Centre for the Family. Back in the days of The BC Protestant Orphans' Home, children who lived here remember "Christmas was a big event. There were many special times during this season of the year … for deprived children, it was an unbelievably happy time…"

And so it is today, for many of our clients, that Christmas is both a busy and a happy time. Sometimes, though, that busy-ness can become a distraction from what we're really here for. 

This afternoon, as I sat at my desk busily clearing the way for my own time off over Christmas, I heard a sound that put me in mind of the angels that sang in Bethlehem. It was the choir from Saint Patrick's School, who had come to sing for our seniors. Beautiful young voices in harmony singing classic carols as well as a few Christmas songs slowed the whole world down momentarily. 

The children were followed by a handbell choir comprised of eight of our senior residents. They've been practicing all year to share their own Christmas songs with the residents and staff, and they played beautifully. A colleague waved to me from where I was taking pictures, and was going to rush off again, when I urged her to wait and listen to the handbell choirs last song. 

Sitting and listening – tt's one of the most rewarding activities of Christmas. In all the shopping and baking, the decorating and the bustle we can so easily forget, "The world in silent stillness lay to hear the angels sing." May you find silent moments this Christmas, moments filled with peace, with love, and with gratitude. 

The Twelve Days of Cridge-Mas

It can be a challenge during the Christmas season to know just what to buy, whom to support, and where best to spend your precious time, talent and resources. Here's our helpful guide to make your holidays just that little bit easier, updated each day from December 10 – 21: 

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[toggle title=”Day 1: Fill a Hamper”] All clients who receive hampers have now been spoken for. Thank you for your generous response.

[toggle title=”Day 2: Stuff a Stocking”]On Friday, December 14 drop by The Cridge Village Senior's Centre Grande Lounge between 7:30 and 10:00 am for warm drinks, tasty treats, lively music, and to Stuff the Stocking for The Cridge Respitality Service. As well as a lovely morning break, you'll be providing much needed support for families raising children with special needs.[/toggle]

[toggle title=”Day 3: Transfer a Security”]Nothing says “I Care” like the gift of a stock transfer. While they may not top the list for your family members, a gift to the organization of stocks or other securities will mean we are able to help even more people in 2013. Find out more, including a transfer form for you and your broker to complete, on our Giving page.

[toggle title=”Day 4: Send a Man, or 10, to the Movies”]For some men who call our brain injury residence home, social activities are a part of their recovery process. For others, a night at the movies is just a great change in routine, and an opportunity to have a little fun and forget about recovery for a while. Either way, a gift of 10 passes or gift cards for the nearby Cineplex will provide a great night out for the residents that will continue to bless them after the final credits roll. [/toggle]

[toggle title=”Day 5: Give of Yourself”]There is nothing like the joy of making another person smile, and that is what our volunteers do every time they give of themselves to spend time with our clients. Call B-I-N-G-O at the The Cridge Village Senior’s Centre, help in the childcare centre, or tidy the gardens at MacDonald House. When you give of yourself, you give the very best! Find out more on out Volunteer page.[/toggle]

[toggle title=”Day 6: Save a Seat”]Do you or a local organization you know have six folding chairs in good repair you’d like to give a new home? Our brain injury support groups at Mary Cridge Manor could put them to good use! Contact to arrange to donate the chairs.[/toggle]

[toggle title=”Day 7: Furnish a Happy Morning”]When woman and children arrive at The Cridge Transition House for Women, they’ve often left behind some of the basics of life. Your gift of alarm clocks, umbrellas, slippers, or pyjamas will ensure a safe night’s sleep and happy good morning. [/toggle] [toggle title=”Day 8: Stock a Cupboard”]Both The Cridge Young Parent Outreach Program and The Cridge Dovetail Services maintain emergency food cupboards for clients to access on their leanest days. Non-perishable food items, diapers and toiletries are always in high need, as are bus tickets and grocery gift cards. [/toggle] [toggle title=”Day 9: Deliver Safety”]A financial donation to The Cridge Transition House for Women’s “Keys in Hand Fund” will cover the costs of moving, storage, and utilities for a woman starting out in her new, violence-free, home. Just designate ‘Keys in Hand’ in the memo of your cheque or in the Message box via online donation on our Canada Helps page.[/toggle] [toggle title=”Day 10: Re-Gift that old Cell”]Giving new phones to your teens this Christmas? Bring your old phone in for recycling and the money we make goes toward new phones for women or towards getting their phone number changed.[/toggle] [toggle title=”Day 11: Leave a Legacy”]The Cridge Centre for the Family may not exist today if not for the forward thinking and planning of key saints along the way who bequeathed gifts in their wills. Your thoughtful addition of The Cridge Centre in your estate planning will mean a brighter future for the organization and the people we serve. Contact Shannon Whissell, Manager of Communication & Fund Development, to learn more.  [/toggle] [toggle title=”Day 12: Say a Little Prayer”]This gift is last, not because it is the least important, but because we want it to stick with you. Please pray for us. Pray for our leadership – the board of directors and our Chief Executive Officer Shelley Morris – that they will have discernment, courage and wisdom in guiding the organization. Pray for our management and staff who go so far and beyond their job descriptions to make a difference in the lives of clients’ they interact with. Pray for the safety and preservation of our physical resources, that they will last to serve so many more people. And, as always, please pray for our clients, for their safety, and that their time with us will be time that edifies, strengthens, and encourages them.



And, just to get you in the mood, here's a very fun 12 Days of Christmas that's sure to leave you with a smile: 

What Will Your Legacy Be?

In 1892, John George Taylor updated his will, leaving his entire estate to The BC Protestant Orphans' home. Shortly after, Mr. Taylor passed away, forever changing the fate of the organization he had supported late in his life. 

According to the available records, no one is quite sure how Mr. Taylor, a police man by trade, came to amass a small fortune, but the $32,000 he left allowed the society leaders to purchase 12 acres at the corner of Hillside Avenue and Cook Street, then considered the outsksirts of the city, and to build the beautiful red brick home that now bears Mr. Taylor's name. The Taylor building is the heart of The Cridge Centre. Over 119 years it has housed orphans, the homeless, childcare services, and now seniors and administration while the surrounding Garry oak meadow provides shade and space for children to play. 

In 1917, William Alan left Victoria for the fields of war in Europe. He had spent much of his youth in the BC Protestant Orphans' Home, finding in the Taylor Building security, family, care, and encouragement that had been absent in his earlier life. There weren't a lot of jobs for young men without means or education then, so serving his country in the Canadian Army was a proud though undoubtedly difficult choice. William died in battle, and in his personal effects was found a poignant hand-written will.

He left all he owned of any worth to The BC Protestant Orphan's Home, "the only home I've ever known." One can only imagine the faces of the women who had cared for this young man when they received the news of his death and of his bequest: the feelings of loss and pride that they must have felt, and the acknowledgement and encouragement they must have received for his comment. 

The passing of time allows us to reflect on these legacy gifts of the past, and to see some of the difference they made. A legacy gift is so named not for the way it is received, but for the difference it continues to make in the life of the organization. John Taylor's gift was $32,000. His legacy is permanence, committment, and home. The soldier's gift was $1,000, but his legacy was gratitude and acknowledgement of a job well done. 

What will your legacy be? To find out more about legacy giving, or to include The Cridge Centre for the Family in your estate planning, please contact Shannon Whissell or speak with your lawyer or other estate planning professional. 

Once a Cridge Kid, Always a Cridge Kid!: A plea to support Justin Plunkett

UPDATE: July 10, 2013 – Justin lost his fight with cancer on June 6, 2013. His mom posted the following message “This morning at 4:40 am, Justin earned his wings. It was very peaceful and he was surrounded by love. Justin will be forever young. Love you my lil man.” Our thoughts and prayers are with the Plunkett family as they grieve the loss of their son, brother, nephew, grandson, and friend.

Justin Plunkett and his twin sister Jocelyn, not to mention his little sister Olivia and their cousin, were all Cridge kids. Justin and Jocelyn attended school age care in the Taylor Building, while Olivia is still well-known by the nursery, daycare and school age care staff in our new facility. You don’t turn off the love for a child just because they no longer need our services, so there are many Cridge staff who are touched by the battle against brain cancer that Justin is fighting, with his family’s support.

Justin was diagnosed with brain cancer on Christmas Eve 2010. His cancer was in remission, but on October 29 of this year the family found out that the cancer was back, and is no longer considered treatable. We ask all our friends and supporters to consider how they could help the Plunketts. In addition to suppporting Justin’s bucket list, funds will help the family cover the many expenses of serious care not covered by MSP, such as food and ferry costs while at Children’s Hospital in Vancouver, over the counter medicines, and parking at the hospital.


Ways you can help:

1. Bottle Drive: Drop of your bottles or a cash donation at the Bottle Drive for Justin this Saturday, November 17 from 11 am to 3 pm at 439 Davida Avenue, Victoria.

2. Donate: The family is accepting donations online at Justin’s webpage: Therre are also details on Justin’s website for giving via cheque or to the trust account at CIBC.

3. Spread the Word: The more people who know Justin’s story, the more likely it is that hius family will have the support that they need, and that Justin will get to complete as much of his bucket list as his body will allow.

We will update this post as Justin makes his bucket list known. He was recently able to visit Maui and check off some amazing bucket list items – be sure to check out the photos on Justin’s website.

Congratulations Soroptomists

Our hearty congratulations to the Soroptomists International Greater Victoria chapter!

These amazing women, celebrating their 80th year of service to Victoria, were honoured last night at the Victoria National Philanthropy Day awards with the 2012 Outstanding Philanthropic Service Club Award for their many projects supporting women in the city. 

Soroptimist, meaning "best for women," raises an average of $35,000 annually to support efforts such as The Cridge Transition House for Women, other transition houses in the city, holiday hampers for single-parent families, school supplies, bursaries and birth training. 

At The Cridge Transition House for Women, the Soroptimists provide 'Fresh Start' kits, providing many of the essentials of a home such as dish drying racks, mops, dish soap, and linens, that are so expensive to replace when a woman is fleeing domestic violence. These kits turn a shelter into a home. 

We're grateful for the commitment of the Soroptimists' support, and so happy to see them recognized for the difference they make for women in so many ways. Soroptimists International of Greater Victoria, you really are 'Best for Women."